Programs like “Take This House & Sell It”, “Designed to Sell”, and others show us that homes need to look their best if they are going to attract and impress buyers. Most people would agree that this is the main function of home staging. However, what many people don’t realize is just how important staging can be for the seller in terms of beginning the sometimes very emotional process of leaving a home.
While some people may be selling an investment property or a fix n’ flip, with no emotional attachment to the place, the majority of sellers are selling their home. Your home is extremely personal to you, and even though it may no longer suit your needs, you can still be heavily emotionally invested in it. It may be the first home you ever purchased, or the home your children were born in. You may be selling an elderly or deceased parent’s home, a home you grew up in. Perhaps you are selling because of a divorce, or moving due to a job transfer. All of these situations can make it difficult for you to see the home as the product it is about to become once it goes on the market.
Without beginning the process of detaching, you will continue to treat the house as if it were still your home. While it may be difficult to remove the things that make this place “you”, it is a necessary part of the process of selling. You may find yourself feeling defensive about your things, reluctant to take down your family pictures or pack up your grandma’s collection of antique tea cups. People have been reduced to tears at the idea of covering up the kids’ growth chart they marked on the kitchen wall. This place was your home, and leaving it is likely to be an emotional event.
It helps to remember that staging the house is not about you. It is not a reflection on your personal style, and it does not have a thing to do with the way you live. It simply means you do not sell a house the same way you live in a home. The main appeal for buyers is walking into a home and being able to imagine themselves living there. This is difficult to do if the house feels too much like it belongs to someone else. It needs to feel homey, comfortable and welcoming, but it should not feel too personal. Remember, you are not selling your tastes, your memories or your life. You are selling a space where someone else can develop those things for themselves.
Staging helps present your house in a way that will market it best, but it also helps move you toward seeing it as a commodity to be marketed. It is an important part of the emotional process of selling. Going through the steps of de-cluttering, packing up your personal collections, taking down family photos, getting rid of the stuff that life has collected over the years, begins to loosen those emotional ties and prepares you to move on to the next place that will become home.